How long can your child pay attention to one activity? This usually depends on their developmental age.
If you
have unrealistic expectations of your child's attention span, it can often lead
to temper tantrums and other upsetting behavior. Seriously, being able to concentrate and having
a long attention span will serve your kid well in school—and in life. Your help in providing the right atmosphere and
motivation can greatly improve your child's attention span.
What "sit-down" activities does your child enjoy?
That's where you'll begin. If your child likes puzzles, take time to do puzzles
with him every day. If your child likes you to read out loud, try to read more
often. If your child enjoys imaginary play, get down on the floor and play with
dolls or action figures along with him. Whatever the activity, try to spend 15
minutes every day with your child without interruptions. You will probably
notice that your child is better able to continue playing if he knows that you
won't get up and leave just because he's not asking for interaction
Another important thing is to set a study routine. Instead of
forcing it let children choose their own time. Fixed sleep time are good for
discipline but remember that some kids find it easier to concentrate in early
mornings and others a bit late in the evening.
Remember there is a limit to your child's attention span. An
hour at a time should be enough for the child to concentrate on studying after
the initial five to ten minutes of clearing out other distractions. Once the
child settles down, make sure there are no disturbances. External disturbances
are one of the major factors that divert attention.
Distractions like video games can also prevent the mind from
engaging in concentration. Help your child in organizing study material
well before he sits down to study. Give him a goal that he should try to
achieve within the hour.
Heavy meals are liable to make the child lethargic and lazy.
Feed your child with nutritious but light meals like juices, milk, fruits, and
cheese at regular intervals rather than at one go.
Sometimes you need to sacrifice your own leisure to convey to
your child that you are with him/her in the effort to excel.
The greatest motivator is you and the quality time that you
spend with children. Never let self doubt or worries creep in his/her mind.
Teach them what interests them the most.
A child who is allowed to peruse
his/her interests is more prone to enjoy studies as well.
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